gender neutral rings

If you’re among the 1.2 million Americans who identify as nonbinary, finding clothes can be a challenge… let alone jewelry.

If you want to spruce up your wardrobe with some stylish rings, it’s important that you find unisex styles that you can feel confident rocking every day. This is also true if you’re looking to affirm a nonbinary partner or loved one.

But how can you find and choose gender neutral rings that you or your loved one will enjoy? What customization options can make these styles better for nonbinary individuals? Read on to answer these questions and find the best rings for anyone regardless of their gender.

Simple Minimalist Bands

Minimalism is the idea that less is more. When you design or purchase minimalist jewelry, you’re investing in something simple that matches every style. Both men and women enjoy wearing minimalist rings, and those outside of that binary also can rock them with any outfit.

The most popular form of minimalist ring is a plain band. You can get them in any level of thickness you want, but medium bands between 2-4 mm thick are ideal for nonbinary folks. These bands can come in multiple colors including silver, white-gold, yellow-gold, and even rose-gold for more feminine-presenting enbies.

Some simple bands also might incorporate a tiny gemstone or multiple shining gem studs. White and black are neutral stone hues that work well for nonbinary people regardless of their wardrobe. Of course, some people may prefer to leave these stones out, but it is an option to consider.

Minimalist jewelry is perfect for gender-neutral fashion in part because of its simplicity. You don’t need to worry about getting a band that’s so thick and textured that it becomes masculine. Large shimmering gemstones that may be considered too feminine are also unnecessary for minimalist bands.

They also work well for those who identify as gender-fluid and wear both masculine and feminine outfits at different times. They don’t clash with anything but instead accentuate any look. Whether you want to wear a dress or button-down menswear, you can wear your simple gender neutral ring on any day.

Textured Design Options

Simple bands don’t need to be completely plain in order to be minimalist. If you perceive gemstones as too feminine but want to add some personal flair to an otherwise unadorned design, playing with texture is a good choice.

Many nonbinary people choose rings with sharp or dull grooves on the band at even intervals. These raised “stripes” occasionally lay horizontally across the circumference of the band. More often, though, they’re vertical grooves that span the height of your ring evenly.

You can also request fine custom rings with more organic, random textures. Waves and swirls are good choices for people with different gender identities- they have 0 gendered expectations attached to them.

If you’re a fan of flowers or thorns, you can also have these patterns carved or molded into the surface of your band. Note that raised textures can in some cases be made from differently-colored metals from the rest of your ring. The possibilities are limitless!

Stackable Rings

Stackable rings are usually 1-2 mm thick. Their thinness is important because they’re made to be worn with other stackable rings above or below them.

This is awesome because gender-neutral people can add or remove thickness from their ring design depending on their relationship with their gender on any given day. This makes stackable rings a great choice for gender-fluid or bigender enbies. It’s also important because the subtlety of thin rings makes them a great choice for agender individuals looking to spruce up their daily wear.

You can get stackable rings in all the same styles and metals that simple bands come in. Since they tend to be less expensive than other styles (due to using fewer materials), you also will be able to buy more rings that lean towards representing multiple gender presentations.

Spinner Rings

If you (or the loved one you’re jewelry-shopping for) deal with a lot of daily stress or anxiety, a spinner ring makes for an excellent gender-neutral ring.

These two-banded pieces feature a small ring that fits snugly around the finger but remains unseen. The visible part is a slightly larger ring attached to its exterior that rotates when manually spun. The idea is that those with stress can redirect their fidgeting in a subtle and productive movement while reducing their anxiety during their daily lives.

You may have seen these for $10 at common department stores, but they aren’t just a cheap gift. You can have fine custom spinner rings made with high-end metals and even real precious gemstones. If you can dream up a luxury ring design, you can easily ask Finer Custom Jewelry experts to turn it into a spinner ring.

Moonstone Madness

Many people perceive gemstones as being more feminine than masculine. However, this isn’t always the case- people of all genders can show off gems when rocking jewelry. It isn’t only for women and femme-presenting enbies.

One of the best gender-neutral gemstones is moonstone. There are tons of stories surrounding these pieces, including legends that they protect travelers. Other legends say that two people wearing moonstone at the same time will fall in love while some say that it makes the wearer more emotionally perceptive.

Regardless of whether or not these properties are true, moonstone rings are the epitome of genderless gemstone jewelry.

They don’t give off a stereotypically-feminine glimmer or shine with multiple rainbow hues. Instead, they have a soft white sheen that goes with both masculine and feminine outfits. You can get moonstone embedded into rings regardless of what size stone you’re looking to show off or what metal you’re planning to use.

You also can get ring bands that incorporate moonstone into all of its visible areas. Custom-designing a silver or white-gold band that has smooth moonstone on all its visible parts is a great way to create a unique ring. The evenness of these bands makes them unisex and their neutral white glow looks great on people of any gender.

Black Pearls and Diamonds

Are you a fan of black? Are you looking to jump on one of the latest jewelry trends of 2022 and beyond? Black gemstones might be the right option for you.

Black pearls have the same soft sheen that moonstone offers, but it’s black rather than white. These pearls are actually made from various dark colors such as gray, dark blue, and purple. However, the combination of these hues gives the illusion of black in a fully-natural Tahitian pearl.

One of the best ways to style black pearls is by ordering a custom titanium ring (or one made from another black metal. You can add a small knot to the band for texture and visual appeal, setting the pearl within the center or to the side of the knot. This creates a unique texture while keeping a uniform color.

Black diamonds are another popular black stone trend in modern jewelry. Despite being colored diamonds, they still appear gender-neutral because of their inky hue. They don’t refract light but instead absorb it, creating depth and mystery rather than a rainbow amalgamation of light.

Gothic Glory

Lots of nonbinary folks are really into unique subcultures including gothic fashion. If this describes you, you can use black diamonds or pearls to create gothic-look rings. They go well with any outfit but are especially beautiful with black dresses, gothic suits, corsets, and steampunk-style accessories.

A coffin-cut black diamond is a great way to channel your inner goth. Some people- especially those looking to mix masculine and feminine aesthetics- like to pair these uniquely-shaped diamonds with a rose-gold band. If you don’t like pink, though, you can have them custom-made with any type of metal.

You also can incorporate black pearls in the center of titanium or steel flowers. This is a fun custom style to design alongside a Finer Custom Jeweler because you get to choose the precise shape of the flowers and determine how to make them look gender-neutral.

You also may be interested in adding texture to the band in the form of raised thorns or even making real-looking thorns extend out past the band. This will make the ring look like a gothic rose vine that culminates in the central black stone.

Get the Best Gender Neutral Rings Today

While choosing affirming jewelry can be extremely difficult for nonbinary folks, gender neutral rings are becoming easier to come by than ever before. This is especially true when you choose custom fine jewelry and design your own dream piece.

Now that you know how to find the best rings for non-binary people, it’s time to get started. Finer Custom Jewelry is committed to bringing the piece you’re envisioning to life with high-quality materials and professionally proven methods. Contact us to schedule a custom jewelry appointment- we’re excited to show you what we’re capable of.


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Harmony GreenHarmony Green
23:13 01 Apr 24
Shimon is absolutely amazing at what he does and such a pleasure to work with. We had a custom wedding band made to complement my center stone and the design is quite unique. My fiancé was very apprehensive and worried about not going with a classic wedding band but we both couldn’t be happier with how it turned out! Going to be hard not to wear this for the next few months! 😅
Dylan KuchanDylan Kuchan
21:42 19 Mar 24
Shimon was absolutely amazing. He not only was professional and courteous, but was understanding of my questions and made my visits very easy. Would highly recommend his services at Finer Custom Jewelry.
Alana VAlana V
22:15 18 Mar 24
We had a wonderful experience creating a custom engagment ring with Shimon. Shimon took the time to truly show us our options and helped shape our vision throughout the process.Shimon did a phenomenal job finding the perfect unique stone including similar stone options so we felt confident in our choice. It was such a fun process exploring our options and designing the perfect ring. Shimon is truly a master of his craft!
Ena DuriezEna Duriez
19:48 18 Mar 24
I absolutely love their jewelry, they have beautiful pieces. Highly recommend 👍
Monica J HairMonica J Hair
19:50 15 Mar 24
I had a custom bracelet made by Shimon and his team. From start to finish the process couldn’t have been more seamless. Genuinely a pleasure to work with Finer Custom Jewelry
Steven TocciSteven Tocci
02:32 07 Mar 24
Just got a new watch and needed a link removed. I found this store on Google and decided to stop in and see if they could help. Shimon doesn’t typically do watches, but he didn’t hesitate to stop what he was doing to help me. He took the time out of his day to help me and wouldn’t accept any payment. You can tell he takes extreme pride in his work and he will do whatever it takes to help his customers. I will absolutely be coming back and using him in the future!
Pamela SpearsPamela Spears
21:21 12 Feb 24
Shimon was very helpful, grand place finer jewelry sales. Would definitely recommend to everyone. Will definitely be back to this location
John HuntJohn Hunt
17:59 23 Jan 24
Great experience! Shimon helped me get a salt & pepper engagement ring. He understood exactly what I was looking for and the finished product greatly exceeded my expectations. Highly recommended!!
Sara TurnbullSara Turnbull
22:30 22 Jan 24
Shimon cleaned my wedding ring for me and made it look better than new. I couldn’t stop looking at it in the sun! I had forgotten its potential to shine like that. And Monica was a great help as well, they have an amazing and dedicated team 💍
01:24 05 Jan 24
My fiancé and I cannot say enough about Shimon and Finer Custom Jewelry. I had an heirloom ring from my mom, and two bands that I wanted to use to create a very specific ring, the ring of my dreams. After a lot of research, we found Shimon. Throughout the entire process, he was incredible. From our very first meeting where we went over my vision, to the final product. I feel so lucky to have found such a caring and talented jeweler. You can tell he takes such pride in his work, as he should because it is truly flawless. I would recommend Shimon to anyone I know. We are so thankful to have him to make our forever ring so incredibly special. It exceeded all our expectations and then some.
Laura VargasLaura Vargas
20:26 30 Dec 23
My fiance and I had a fantastic experience going through Finer Custom Jewelry for our wedding bands. Shimon and Monica both worked to create our dream rings within our budget. Would definitely recommend if you are looking for affordable, high quality, fast, and wonderful service.
Jacquie LymanJacquie Lyman
04:17 28 Dec 23
10/10 would recommend Finer Jewelery! I needed a repair on my wedding ring, and also wanted my engagement ring and wedding band soldered together. The service was incredible and the communication was as promised. Shimon is so kind and warm and friendly! My ring came back looking brand new!
Paige DimakosPaige Dimakos
23:15 04 Oct 23
Wonderful experience and customer service. Look forward to working with Shimon in the future.
Homa NikoHoma Niko
22:23 26 Sep 23
It was very nice meeting Shimon, he was very helpful on pricing my sister's ring. Very understanding and knowledgeable on jewelry. Thank you so much Shimon.
Kyle RootKyle Root
20:13 21 Sep 23
Shimon is a great guy super knowledgeable and I will definitely be coming to him again for my jewelry needs.
Lauren Van GyselLauren Van Gysel
18:18 18 Sep 23
Shimone was SO helpful and accommodating when I was selling jewelry! 10/10 experience and will be back!! :)
Roman MendezRoman Mendez
22:55 06 Sep 23
Great place. Shimon really helped me get a great offer on my diamond bracelet
Matthew RamirezMatthew Ramirez
18:25 01 Sep 23
Shimone was a pleasure to work with. He was both reasonable and fair when it came to selling a ring that I had been sitting on for a while. I would highly recommend Finer Custom Jewelry if you’re looking to sell any pieces. Shimone will treat you well.
denise drakedenise drake
22:23 29 Aug 23
Great experience working with Shimon. He had expert ideas about how to manage some antique jewelry and was super and helping us find the right rings!
Pure Air Service AZPure Air Service AZ
18:36 29 Aug 23
Thank you Shimon for your patience with me.I called finer custom jewelry to find a diamond ring to Propose my girlfriend and Shimon was really helpful and profesional.Really recommend.She said yessssss 😊
17:17 29 Aug 23
This place is absolutely amazing. The Jeweler Shimon did a wonderful job when pricing and inspecting the jewelry I brought in for sale. Extremely knowledgeable and very personable. recommend everyone comes here!!
Shelby KarrelsShelby Karrels
23:14 21 Aug 23
My experience with Finer Curation Jewelry was nothing short of phenomenal. Buying, selling, and creating custom jewelry can be a stressful and pressuring experience. However, from the moment I walked into Finer Custom Jewelry, I felt like a valued client. Shimon was patient, knowledgeable, and made the process so much easier than I had expected. If you are looking for a jeweler you can trust, you will find them here!
Sarah KanitschSarah Kanitsch
18:35 15 Aug 23
Amazing service! Helped immediately with the ring I had. Wonderful guy!!
Shane CsiszarShane Csiszar
23:49 07 Aug 23
Shimon was a pleasure to work with! Made the process very easy and enjoyable. We picked a beautiful emerald diamond, and I could not be happier with the quality of his work! I highly recommend Finer Jewelry!
Lauryn ScusselLauryn Scussel
03:27 20 Jul 23
Thanks to Shimon I was able to give my mom her dream Mother’s ring. It was done quickly and efficiently with great communication and a stunning product. A great company for your custom jewelry needs!!
Ryan BerryRyan Berry
17:19 11 Jul 23
Shimon was great to work with. We made a custom ring exactly how I drew it and my fianceé loved it. Will definitely come back for my ring!
Lisa HilchieLisa Hilchie
20:37 09 Jul 23
Shimon was very kind and professional. He responded quickly to my initial email, worked with my schedule to make an appointment, and took the time to answer any questions I had. I'm very happy with my decision to go to him.
Eli Garcia (ELI)Eli Garcia (ELI)
18:32 26 Jun 23
Ring came out perfect my Fiancé loved it, it fit perfect, I’d highly recommend this jeweler, also Shimon was very communicative and gave updates on the ring every chance he had, couldn’t have had a better experience.
Michael NedlerMichael Nedler
00:17 19 Jun 23
I had a big wedding anniversary coming and wanted to do something special for my wife. A friend suggested Finer so I contacted them. What a wonderful experience...Shimon led me through the process of picking an amazing diamonds as well as the perfect ring. My wife couldn't have been happier and I felt like a hero. I feel like a got an incredible ring for the money and will be back for the next occasion!
Arianna DohertyArianna Doherty
16:51 14 Jun 23
I needed to get two rings appraised and the process was easy and convenient. Shimon was able to meet with me the same week and got me the written appraisals within 3 days. I did not need to leave the items with him as some other jewelers require. I'm very pleased with the ease of working with Shimon.
Kayla ThurberKayla Thurber
02:32 16 Mar 23
I would give Shimon at Finer Custom Jewelry 10 stars if I could! He created an entirely custom ring for my fiancé just based on one Google image photo that she provided me. Before working with Shimon, I assumed I would not be able to afford a custom ring, but I was able to choose everything for the ring and stay perfectly within my budget. It was a very personal experience to create this ring and I felt heard by Shimon the entire time. (He even texted me to congratulate me on my engagement!) And he produced the most wonderful, amazing ring that will last for a lifetime! One final note: as a woman proposing to another woman, I was nervous to be judged when purchasing a non-traditional engagement ring. Shimon made me feel SO comfortable and validated. I could not recommend his services enough.
Daniel GoldbergDaniel Goldberg
00:55 03 Mar 23
My entire experience with Shimon was incredible start to finish. I came in with just an idea of what I wanted for an engagement ring. He took the time to explain the different options, settings and styles that would match my idea. Needless to say, the ring turned out beautifully and she loved it. Most importantly, Shimon was honest and fair. We will definitely be going back for all of our future needs.
Sarah RisiSarah Risi
18:47 14 Feb 23
Shimon helped me elevate my engagement diamond to a beautiful channel set band with my birthstone sapphires. I couldn’t be happier with the quality of his work!
Kyle BelskiKyle Belski
23:50 07 Feb 23
Shimon is the man! He took the time to help us design my fiancé’s ring just the way she wanted it. She now gets compliments on her ring on a daily basis. Shimon also got us a high quality diamond at a more than fair price. I recommend Finer Jewelry for all of your jewelry needs!
Aalia FuellerAalia Fueller
19:49 07 Feb 23
I’ve been working with Shimon for a year. I had all my mother’s diamonds reset. He helped me recreate a ring setting that joined my mom and dads diamonds so I have them with me at all times. He repaired many pieces and restrung my mom’s pearls. He’s a true professional and an amazing person. He and his wife have created an awesome business.If you want to design your own piece or buy one, Finer Jewelry is the place to go!
Lena GonzalezLena Gonzalez
17:10 25 Jun 22
Thank you to Shimon for this amazing diamond ring!! If you’re struggling looking for a jeweler in Arizona, you have to choose Finer Jewelry! He was very attentive to what I wanted and made me feel listened to throughout the entire process. He was truly a pleasure to work with, I could not recommend him enough!
Dania KassabDania Kassab
18:43 09 Jun 22
I’ve been looking for a yellow diamond ring for a while now and I’m so glad I foundation Finer Jewelry!!! Shimon showed me a variety of diamonds and made sure I was in love with the specific stone and shade of the diamond. Shimon made sure to educate me on my purchase which I really appreciated because I honestly didn’t know much about diamonds before meeting with him. I could not be more obsessed with this ring, so thank you so much Shimon for helping me find my dream ring!!!
Ashley BoldAshley Bold
07:24 29 Jan 22
If you are looking for a jeweler in the Scottsdale/Phoenix area, look no further. As we began shopping for an engagement ring we went to a number of different jewelers in the area but no one offered the same level of customer service as Shimon at Finer Jewelry! He was so helpful and caring throughout the entire process of designing my dream ring. I get so many compliments on my ring and it’s all thanks to Finer Jewelry!!
22:48 24 Dec 21
I was gifted diamonds from my mother and both grandmother’s wedding rings and I wanted to make my own wedding ring with them. I was able to schedule an appointment the following day and began working on the ring design. They were so thorough in making sure the fit and design was just right by making 3D imaging and wax molds for you to see before the ring is actually made. The whole process took about a month from start to finish and you can’t beat the price! I’m beyond happy with what they made for me. It’s truly something special.
18:36 14 Dec 21
After sharing our diamond CCC wish list with Shimon we sat back and waited. Shimon took us seriously and carefully watched the exchanges for "our stone". He found us a nearly flawless diamond that presented 30% larger than its weight! We then asked Shimon to craft a setting that required specially cut supplemental diamonds. Shimon's relationships with diamond cutters and his goldsmith made it possible for him to deliver our dream setting with our own "hope" diamond! Shimon is personable, very fun to work with and completely transparent. He and his stones are priceless!
Deanna HuntDeanna Hunt
17:35 04 Nov 21
Amazing experience. My favorite diamond jeweler in Scottsdale. A custom experience, fair prices, honest, top quality. What more can I say!
Candace HagermanCandace Hagerman
00:03 08 Sep 21
Shimon did an amazing job understanding what I wanted in my ring. After picking out my main stone he found two that perfectly coordinated. It turned out so much more than I hoped. Will definitely recommend and return.
Robbie BurtonRobbie Burton
23:20 03 Aug 21
I found the staff to be more than happy to assist in the design and creation of a true family heirloom. The process of collaboration with this jeweler was such a joy. Me and my family will treasure this for a lifetime. Thank you so much. A truly happy customer.